Arranged marriage(love with arrange) vs love marriage and Divorce rate :

Arrange marriage,

The people of India, Nepal,pakistan,bangladesh,lanka etc .country. In these country’s arranged marriage is largely practiced ,the percentage in India is 92 % arrange or love with arrange marriage & only 8 % is love marriage, friends, arrange marriage doesn’t means forced to marriage. Its not as stupid as many (outsider)  people think. As all of you knows India is well known for yoga, meditation, astrology, tradition . many of us in India  analyse horoscope of boy & gal for marriage, nt all of us, we also see that the background of both guy and girl. Mostly both have similar culture. Coz in similar culture its help the gal to live with her new family.

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 In western culture most of the guys loves so many times, dates so many times, make sex without any responsibility and surrender , most of times they have mixed babies who have no identity, we still have morals and are proud of our heritage. The boy and girl talk to each other and they decide about marriage…

In arrange marriage most of the time gal & boy meet,  to know each other, in the village of Bihar (one of the traditional state of India) mother ask to her daughter , are u agree to marry this guy?, if yes then .Ok if no,she have to give reason, sometimes there may be forced by parents but its nt wrong as per my thought, smtimes its happen, coz every father in India wants the happiness of his daughter,

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In love marriage, when a boy or gal  fall in love with a gal or boy , who matches his likes or a girl likes a boy and they becomes friend. Most of the times its attraction only, and after some times they are not happily living their life, but some times Their  friendship may grow more closer and at one stage if they feel comfortable with each other, they may decide to become life partners. In most of the cases, all these happens without the knowledge of their parents. When the stage comes to get married or if a the girl or the boy is forced to get married to another person, these things come out. Some parents may take it positively and may agree to go ahead with the proposal have will end up with a ceremonial wedding. But in most of the cases, they lose the support  from their parents and with the help of their friends, they are forced to go for a registered wedding and end up separating from their family.here I m talking about Indian love marriage not western  love marriage.

Love with arrange , its cool men!                                                                                                    As I already say that, When the stage comes to get married or if a the girl or the boy is forced to get married to another person, these things come out. Some parents may take it positively and may agree to go ahead with the proposal have will end up with a ceremonial wedding this is called love with arrange, in this case lover’s have to take their responsibility and they have to try their best to make their family agree.

Friends, Love marriage is a legal right for two individuals who care and love for each other to live together and go ahead with their life. So I am nt against love, but I prefer arrange marriage or arrange with love , or may be Some times start their love life after the wedding and really enjoy and are happy.

 

The success mantra (idea) of happy marriage life in India is we all care about our culture, tradition ,family and society,

Let see now the result of happy Indian marriage life according to Wikipedia

Divorce ( dissolution of marriage) is the final termination of a marital union, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage  and dissolving the bonds of matrimony  between the parties divorce allows each former partner to marry another, divorce allows the woman to marry another men. But dear friends Divorce is nt a Solution.

In India divorce rate is only 1.1%, in italy 10 %, in Switzerland 25.5%, US 54.8% and sweedon 54.9 %

Rank

Country

Percent

1

 India

1.1

2

 Sri Lanka

1.5

3

 Japan

1.9

4

 Republic of Macedonia

5.0

5

 Bosnia and Herzegovina

5.0

6

 Turkey

6.0

7

 Armenia

6.0

8

 Georgia

6.6

9

 Italy

10.0

10

 Azerbaijan

10.3

11

 Albania

10.9

12

 Israel

14.8

13

 Spain

15.2

14

 Croatia

15.5

15

 Greece

15.7

16

 Singapore

17.2

17

 Poland

17.2

18

 Romania

19.1

19

 Slovenia

20.7

20

 Bulgaria

21.1

21

 Switzerland

25.5

22

 Portugal

26.2

23

 Slovakia

26.9

24

 Moldova

28.1

25

 Latvia

34.4

26

 Canada

37.0

27

 Hungary

37.5

28

 Netherlands

38.3

29

 France

38.3

30

 Lithuania

38.9

31

 Germany

39.4

32

 Iceland

39.5

33

 Ukraine

40.0

34

 Norway

40.4

35

 United Kingdom

42.6

36

 Russia

43.3

37

 Czech Republic

43.3

38

 Austria

43.4

39

 Belgium

44.0

40

 Denmark

44.5

41

 Estonia

46.7

42

 Luxembourg

47.4

43

 Finland

51.2

44

 Belarus

52.9

45

 United States

54.8

46

 Sweden

54.9

 

Friends this data says that in India and south east asia our marriage life is far better then others

Specially Indians have to celibrate that, our tradition is best tradition in world. coz we live with love not by divorced n frustrated life, we are with our family/joint family.

 

 

 

note- data and some points will be taken by Wikipedia, and snaps from Google search,                                    i believe that its helps all of you to understand the tradition of India and the success of arrange marriage  

……………………………..vishal shresth

29 thoughts on “Arranged marriage(love with arrange) vs love marriage and Divorce rate :

  1. yes!. its a great information about divorce rate and indian marriage standard
    i like the hole post
    thanks vishal for this

  2. i like this
    but use sunaoo us pagli ko, bahut bolti hai, bakwash hai, mujhe to uske thought se lagta hai ki wo frustate hai, pakka yar
    wo videsi coment karegi to jawab dungi main

  3. If you want to get someone desired love in your life and you have problem in telling him about your love feeling, just use these Islamic vashikaran mantras and result will be seen within a month. Don’t use these mantras for lust purpose. Love is god and lust is shaitaan.

  4. o yes vishalshrsth you are right ………… good information about marriage relationship……. i think sir now this time almost youngster only accept love marriage relationship. some cases parents not agree then guys use vashikaran astrology way. Its use to control the mind anyone.

    • i m in the support of love marriage but i want to say please dont ignore your parents choice n after that take any design
      arrange marriage is the best option
      thanks for writhing, keep coming

  5. Dear
    To good information you had given to us
    Love come arrange marriages are better then arrange marriage and love marriage.
    And the people who are in love please make your parents understand your love and do your marriage.
    Please don’t hurt your parents .
    Parents don’t hurt your childrens.

  6. can u please give me information regarding the actual divorced percentage of arranged marriage couples and love marriage couples of nepal…..I have searched alot on many sites but i couldnt find it… my presentation ll b in tomorrow so i need this soon😦 .I hope u ll help me🙂 #vishal_shrestha_sir

    • Oh! so sorry i don’t have any actual report about that
      but, according to a private servery divorce rate is 17 % in arrange marriage but i don’t have actual figure of love marriage

  7. Maybe, the divorce rate in India is not because people are happy with their marriages but because there is a strong opposition to divorce in the Indian society. People abroad are more free to do what they like and that is why their divorce rate is high!

  8. This a foolish report. Don’t think that if the divorce rate is low then the marriages are successful. More than 75% of men and more than 50% of women in india have extra marital affairs. How can u say that a marriage is successful when any one of the couple have extra marital affair. Can all the men who commented here can promise that they never had a extra marital affair. It is better to get a divorce than to have relationship with another woman secretly. Also most of the women suffer a lot with their husbands and live like slaves just because of the foolish traditions.

    • wow!
      it means you read it carefully but u didn”t understand it,
      i said that Arrange Marriage is more successful than Love Marriage.
      and about extra martial affair , it is the main cause of divorce.
      hence , my point of view is our traditional Marriage system is better then modern (copied culture )

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