Arranged marriage(love with arrange) vs love marriage and Divorce rate :

Arrange marriage,

The people of India, Nepal,pakistan,bangladesh,lanka etc .country. In these country’s arranged marriage is largely practiced ,the percentage in India is 92 % arrange or love with arrange marriage & only 8 % is love marriage, friends, arrange marriage doesn’t means forced to marriage. Its not as stupid as many (outsider)  people think. As all of you knows India is well known for yoga, meditation, astrology, tradition . many of us in India  analyse horoscope of boy & gal for marriage, nt all of us, we also see that the background of both guy and girl. Mostly both have similar culture. Coz in similar culture its help the gal to live with her new family.

 

 In western culture most of the guys loves so many times, dates so many times, make sex without any responsibility and surrender , most of times they have mixed babies who have no identity, we still have morals and are proud of our heritage. The boy and girl talk to each other and they decide about marriage…

In arrange marriage most of the time gal & boy meet,  to know each other, in the village of Bihar (one of the traditional state of India) mother ask to her daughter , are u agree to marry this guy?, if yes then .Ok if no,she have to give reason, sometimes there may be forced by parents but its nt wrong as per my thought, smtimes its happen, coz every father in India wants the happiness of his daughter,

In love marriage, when a boy or gal  fall in love with a gal or boy , who matches his likes or a girl likes a boy and they becomes friend. Most of the times its attraction only, and after some times they are not happily living their life, but some times Their  friendship may grow more closer and at one stage if they feel comfortable with each other, they may decide to become life partners. In most of the cases, all these happens without the knowledge of their parents. When the stage comes to get married or if a the girl or the boy is forced to get married to another person, these things come out. Some parents may take it positively and may agree to go ahead with the proposal have will end up with a ceremonial wedding. But in most of the cases, they lose the support  from their parents and with the help of their friends, they are forced to go for a registered wedding and end up separating from their family.here I m talking about Indian love marriage not western  love marriage.

Love with arrange , its cool men!                                                                                                    As I already say that, When the stage comes to get married or if a the girl or the boy is forced to get married to another person, these things come out. Some parents may take it positively and may agree to go ahead with the proposal have will end up with a ceremonial wedding this is called love with arrange, in this case lover’s have to take their responsibility and they have to try their best to make their family agree.

Friends, Love marriage is a legal right for two individuals who care and love for each other to live together and go ahead with their life. So I am nt against love, but I prefer arrange marriage or arrange with love , or may be Some times start their love life after the wedding and really enjoy and are happy.

 

The success mantra (idea) of happy marriage life in India is we all care about our culture, tradition ,family and society,

Let see now the result of happy Indian marriage life according to Wikipedia

Divorce ( dissolution of marriage) is the final termination of a marital union, canceling the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage  and dissolving the bonds of matrimony  between the parties divorce allows each former partner to marry another, divorce allows the woman to marry another men. But dear friends Divorce is nt a Solution.

In India divorce rate is only 1.1%, in italy 10 %, in Switzerland 25.5%, US 54.8% and sweedon 54.9 %

Rank	Country	Percent
1	India	1.1
2	Sri Lanka	1.5
3	Japan	1.9
4	Republic of Macedonia	5.0
5	Bosnia and Herzegovina	5.0
6	Turkey	6.0
7	Armenia	6.0
8	Georgia	6.6
9	Italy	10.0
10	Azerbaijan	10.3
11	Albania	10.9
12	Israel	14.8
13	Spain	15.2
14	Croatia	15.5
15	Greece	15.7
16	Singapore	17.2
17	Poland	17.2
18	Romania	19.1
19	Slovenia	20.7
20	Bulgaria	21.1
21	Switzerland	25.5
22	Portugal	26.2
23	Slovakia	26.9
24	Moldova	28.1
25	Latvia	34.4
26	Canada	37.0
27	Hungary	37.5
28	Netherlands	38.3
29	France	38.3
30	Lithuania	38.9
31	Germany	39.4
32	Iceland	39.5
33	Ukraine	40.0
34	Norway	40.4
35	United Kingdom	42.6
36	Russia	43.3
37	Czech Republic	43.3
38	Austria	43.4
39	Belgium	44.0
40	Denmark	44.5
41	Estonia	46.7
42	Luxembourg	47.4
43	Finland	51.2
44	Belarus	52.9
45	United States	54.8
46	Sweden	54.9

 

Friends this data says that in India and south east asia our marriage life is far better then others

Specially Indians have to celibrate that, our tradition is best tradition in world. coz we live with love not by divorced n frustrated life, we are with our family/joint family.

 

 

 

note- data and some points will be taken by Wikipedia, and snaps from Google search,                                    i believe that its helps all of you to understand the tradition of India and the success of arrange marriage  

……………………………..vishal shresth